2013年8月6日星期二

原來是她

香港瘋情畫 一文,匿名讀者這樣批評我:「幸好閣下一早移居澳洲,否則香港市民受害更深」,繼而再講:「回應並非針對林老師單一事件, 實不值網主一直對香港事隔岸觀火, 嘲弄學識不如他的人, 有時更自視過高 」。我不介意被批評,可讓人公開留言的網絡平台,已預了會有人講很難聽的說話。這位匿名讀者的留言,也還未算很難聽,只是第一句講到我好像害人不淺,其他都只是批評態度。可惜匿名讀者沒有指出我錯在那裏,只近乎人身攻擊,而沒有提出論據。這樣做卻惹起其他讀者的批評。

我今天晚上在不斷反省,我做過甚麼傷天害理的事,竟然惹來這則留言。我重複看了留言,終於理出紋路來,原來是她,一個我根本不相識的人。我不會指名道姓,也不想講得太多以免其他人猜到她的身分。她引用歐家麟那兩段文字,用來揶揄我的話其實也罵自己。我明白她對我的憤懣,希望她經一事長一智,珍惜前程,就當我自吹自擂,以後不要看我的blog好了。

15 則留言:

  1. 政黨跑腿也可變民主女神, 何不當作香港夢的奇蹟?

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  2. 標少,

    雌性=痴性=黐性!
    她爱之深,恨之切嘛!
    她太遲才遇到你的blog,相逢恨晚!
    早点相知,或會不黐!
    都是標錯,使她標梅已過!

    ABCDE Fans

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    1. 請勿亂講,可能我猜錯。我沒有半點惡意,忘掉她吧,請向前看,我的blog就往後看。

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  3. 得啖笑,笑吓咋!
    ABCDE Fans

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  4. 不管那位匿名君是誰,如果她/他還會再來,我想跟她/他說:

    兼聽則明,偏信則暗

    互勉之

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  5. (off topic)怕你唔知,有人將你的博貼上督察協會的面書,這可能是你點擊率大升的原因。其實早幾個月有人亦將你的文章貼上高登,我偶爾發現的。

    看到你寫"晚上不斷反省",感覺你為一句讀者留言感到很不快,其實不需要啊。我自己覺得那句留言其實沒什麼。如果自己沒有做錯,就一笑置之算了。

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    1. 是嗎?上了人家的facebook無問題。

      你不認識我,反省是我的習慣。如果留言只是罵粗或者罵我蠢,我會一笑置之,粗口我會刪去,其他我會留著,我不隱惡揚善。她把我講成傷天害理,我當然要反省自己有沒有做害人的事。

      有空我會寫一篇批評警方整件事的處理方法,又看一下他們貼不貼。

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    2. Do it soon, that might make you appear more balanced and objective. Self proclamation of objectivity can never do the trick because objectively objectivity is not realisable,but it's an ideal we should work towards.

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    3. Sterling,

      You have every qualification to comment whether I am a fair minded person. You have been on the defence side most of your life. Did you still remember what you said when I left the prosecution? Did you remember what you said when I left HK? Was it actually a stark contrast between what you said when I left HK and what the aggrieved lady said in my blog when she left her comments? Self proclamation is one thing, reading from the blogs itself and what impression you may get is another. What is objectivity? Can I simply say the average of collectively subjectivities? Just like the policeman pointing his laser gun at the speeding car and the reading of the speed comes from the average of thousand laser beams travelling to and fro within split seconds?

      I don't know. I suppose I may have overstated my objectivity and yet I have no personal gain or aggrandisement for writing these blogs.

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  6. 這位匿名讀者的人身攻擊留言其實或多或少反映了她/他的內心自卑.

    KW

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  7. 標少,

    你大人有大量,好Man! 讓一切隨風,過去了!
    不打不相識,可能遲些大家會由不咬弦变了粉絲!

    ABCDE Fans

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  8. I'm sorry. Please forgive me. I love you. I thank you.
    (Ho'oponopono)

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  9. Haha, maybe I subconsciously still bear a grudge about the comment but I have given it a pass. I appreciate your suggestion of the Ho'oponopono method of healing, better works on her than me.

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